Why is sex POSITIVITY important?

In observing the benefits of harnessing themes of sex positivity, I have seen transformation in my own life and the lives of others, and the way in which individuals are able to navigate the world differently. Sex positivity is not about how many partners you have, how much sex you have, or even what kind of sex you like to have. It is about finding empowerment in your desires, wants and needs, and using self awareness to more effectively advocate for these things in your own life.

We carry with us stories and patterns that have likely served us in the past, but may no longer serve us. This can exacerbate symptoms of anxiety, depression or other mental health conditions. Exploring and recognizing, with gentleness, how these patterns have become detrimental, gives us the freedom to choose what themes we insert in our life, and what we no longer have space for.

I am excited by the opportunity to explore with individuals and couples the way in which they can increase their intimacy, empowerment, and sense of individuality by exploring and challenging barriers and patterns that limit exploration, ultimately resulting in a feeling of agency. Acknowledging the impact of trauma and attachment injuries provides an additional tool in which to approach healing.

I acknowledge the presence of unique barriers to BIPOC in accessing alternative identities. I encourage therapeutic space for individualized experiences among people of differing abilities, identities, cultures and kinks, and recognize how this contributes to the whole person. I am honored to go on this adventure with you, and invite the opportunity to support you in finding alignment.